{"id":1348,"date":"2020-05-18T15:59:09","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T13:59:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/okcinfo.news\/2020\/uncategorized\/its-moving-to-read-you-to-find-yourself-at-the-bend-of-these-verbs-even-if-we-would-have-liked-to-see-each-other-in-more-joyful-conditions\/"},"modified":"2020-05-18T15:59:09","modified_gmt":"2020-05-18T13:59:09","slug":"its-moving-to-read-you-to-find-yourself-at-the-bend-of-these-verbs-even-if-we-would-have-liked-to-see-each-other-in-more-joyful-conditions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/okcinfo.chardonsbleus.org\/en\/2020\/news\/its-moving-to-read-you-to-find-yourself-at-the-bend-of-these-verbs-even-if-we-would-have-liked-to-see-each-other-in-more-joyful-conditions\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s moving to read you, to find yourself at the bend of these verbs&#8230; even if we would have liked to see each other in more joyful conditions."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s moving to read you, to find yourself at the bend of these verbs&#8230; even if we had liked to see ourselves in happier conditions.<br \/>\nI really like the answer &#8220;And the others,&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In memory of the beautiful writing,<\/p>\n<p>I remember all of you, our laughter, our loves, our beliefs, the intensity of our lives, beautiful&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But I also remember&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Our absent parents, the abandonment, the unspoken&#8230; the rare parcels or letters from our families scattered in the group or fed to the crows,<\/p>\n<p>Barefoot running in thistles in the middle of winter<\/p>\n<p>Black from the shoe&#8217;s reserve cave<\/p>\n<p>From this unique square of chocolate, from the hunger<\/p>\n<p>From &#8220;don&#8217;t tell your parents&#8230; they might be sad&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Departures in minibuses from Brussels, horrible, where each of us cried silently to leave our parents once again &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I remember &#8230; 10 years&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Child in the frost of winter, 6:00 a.m., dressed in simple cotton panties, prostrating myself with my comrades until the grass burned by the cold appeared; Then we had to change places to erase other spaces of frost &#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>I remember, 10 years<\/p>\n<p>The wet handkerchief in our mouth to muffle our screams, the blackness of the cellar to hide the blows, the desire for everything to stop, the fear&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I remember that,<\/p>\n<p>The taste of rotten apples, the kibble of the dog, hungry and hungry&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I remember when I was 12 years old.<\/p>\n<p>Running at night in the cold, swimming at 5.30 am from November to March in icy water.<\/p>\n<p>I remember, 24 years<\/p>\n<p>The word of a man saying to me &#8220;you are like my son&#8221;, then to protect the interests of the group to accuse me of treason and to throw me out; to tear me away from the happiness of love and family, and from the happiness of the birth of a son&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>today,<\/p>\n<p>I also remember the Buddhist texts and teachings:<\/p>\n<p>They teach to live moderately, without material goods, but then why, those big cars, those villas in Spain, Belgium, or elsewhere,<br \/>\nI remember my father when I was 14 years old asking myself the same question: I answered him that it was normal, &#8220;The Master is precious and we must honor him&#8221;;<br \/>\nSimplicity honors the wise far better than opulence.<br \/>\nWhy is there a ferocious appetite for money? Why all these complications so far from the illustrious example of the Yogis Kangyur Rimpoche!<\/p>\n<p>They teach to be virtuous and good to one&#8217;s neighbor, but then why did we have to endure all these hardships, why don&#8217;t you soothe the pain of your children, rather than defend your beliefs?<\/p>\n<p>They teach you not to lie &#8220;not to tell the truth&#8221; but then why all these lies, these manipulations, this rotten policy: paying to satisfy your security, taking money from members of what is called &#8220;the family&#8221;, the great game of blackmail; or whoever has the most to lose pays the most.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, in short, I want to address Lamten and Cab\u00e9 in particular:<br \/>\nI remember your tenderness, your human qualities, I admired and loved them, and today, faced with the simple reality that is ours, that of your children at heart, please breathe deeply!<br \/>\nAccept that what you think is right may not be right.<br \/>\nLook at all these human lives with the heart and not with belief.<br \/>\nThe teaching is not in the book, on the pillow in the temple or for some in a binge drinking, it is first in the simple gesture of loving and helping without any crutch.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, one of the essential points of Buddhism, consists in looking for a master, and to verify his authenticity&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Yours sincerely, tenderly.<\/p>\n<p>#Testimony<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s moving to read you, to find yourself at the bend of these verbs&#8230; even if we had liked to see ourselves in happier conditions. 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